I'm so freaking into her, but I can't figure her out? Go hard or go home?

So I met this girl (A) about 2 months ago, at that moment I liked this other girl (B), but I did think about A too, but my brain said go for B... So yeah, that spark died, without me doing anything, and during that I saw A more frequently (at parties, events, etc..) and I fell for her. We're a bit different, and I can't get her, so yeah, Facebook chatting is terrible, she rarely asks me anything, but she isn't an asshole too. When I asked her out for a coffee/walk, she said yeah. Then we went out, and we talked and I made her laugh, then we went to these friends at another coffee, and she left without saying bye (I think I just missed her, go). And then last week I did something pretty stupid... At this party I got high and in my stupid moment I thought it would be wise to chase after her (she'd already left like 5 min before that), so I caught up with her, but unintentionally, scared her, cause she was standing there (midnight in the middle of the street) looking at her phone and stuff. Then I walked her home and she was really upset about me scaring the crap outta her. And I couldn't quite be sure if she was joking (damn actress), or not :D In the end she didn't even say bye, she just walked in and I was like "aren't you gonna say bye", and she replied "nope" and bam went the door :D

Should I continue pursuing her, by that I mean go out again and kiss her? Or do you think it's a total bust?

quick update, if you could give me some tips, as to how to find out for (pretty) sure if she's into me?


Have an opinion?


Send It!

What Girls Said 2

  • Let her go.

  • Don't push her.


What Guys Said 0

Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!