I don't know what to do, I like this girl more than you know but she is still "in-love" with her boyfriend. He passed away a couple years ago and she isn't over him. (That came out wrong, but you understand what I mean't) She likes me and I like her, but she doesn't know what to do. She talks to me about it a lot, but she always gets so emotional when we talk.
I know most of you will say that I should move on, but I love this girl so much. We talk about doing things together one day, then a couple days later she's crying because she misses him. I feel so bad, I don't know what to do..
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She is is still in 'Mourning' over her the Ghost from the past, sweetie, so Anyone right now, would be nothing but a Rebound Robert. She isn't done licking her war wounds, hasn't 'Moved on' herself and isn't really trying to, it seems... she would rather wallow in self pity and past tears and fears than to Try and find even a closure to her fairy tale ending That----Doesn't seem to be ending right now.
Go with the flow for now and accept things as they are. If you are so hellbent on being by her side, being her Life line, then there is no talking you out of it. However, if you find that she is rattling your cage to the point where it seems hopeless and this is just going up in thin air, slowly start focusing on your own life so you don't have to die, ending up with a broken heart.
Good luck. xx1
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