Okay, wed my girlfriend brought up a text telling me i beleive we are moving to fast, she beleives she hasn't prayed enough for the relationship to work, and even that she got into a relationship to fast. well i didn't talk to her wed night, i let her have a bit of a break to think, because she was really depressed sounding like she didn't want to keep dating but didn't wanna hurt me. we didn't talk Thursday at all besides me texting her good morning and have a great day. Friday she actually text me a little and she's not as bad as she was wed, but still depressed. Friday night she checks in on me actually saying this "hey sweetie. just wanted to check in. i feel really bad about putting you through stuff these last couple days. we can talk about it all sometime soon, but not right now. but you're incredible. okay? you need to know that. you feel like one of my best friends and thats super important to me." i have no idea what she's really trying to say there but I've also had the flu since last Saturday night... finally better and might ask if she wants to come hang out Saturday. it was also her birthday that i couldnt come to Tuesday of this week and i still need to make up for that when im able to drive again, hopfully tommrow i can have more strength. but anyways Friday night (tonight) we actually had a decent conversation just about how her day was and stuff. so is she just planning on the right time to end it with me? or is she just trying to make up for telling me this during me being sick with the flu feeling bad? and she actually decided to keep me? i dont really know and would appreciate help asap if anyone has an idea.
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When a girl feels things are going too fast, her first instinct is to withdraw. She starts to not trust herself and her feelings. It's good that you didn't react, but you gave her time to think. If you had pushed for an answer or tried to woo her back, it'd have backfired majorly.
I guess she took a couple of days to sort out her feelings, got pretty stressed and depressed, before deciding that you were still important to her, but in what way, she's not sure. She mentioned friendship, that's a good place to start as any. It means she believes that the time you two had together were real, it was fun, and it meant a lot to her. Romance-wise she's not sure, but maybe she's trying to figure it out slowly now.
So no, she's not going to end it with you. She just wants to start slow again and try to judge her relationship with you without bringing too much emotion into the picture. Because she doesn't trust her feelings or emotions right now.0