Well basically, I'm 17, 18 in January, and I've never as much as kissed or dated a girl. My friends tell me this isn't anything to do with me being me and that I'm a good guy but more to do with the fact I'm wheelchair bound and this puts girls off.
I have a muscle weakness meaning I can't walk but can still move my legs and I'm still able everywhere else. I do believe them to extent as I see how girls wouldn't want to be with a guy who can't even stand next to them or dance with them etc. etc.
So I want to know in all honestly, trust me I won't be offended, I'm very hard to offend, would you ever date a wheelchair user?
(If you need more info before you can answer, feel free to ask.)
- I couldVote A
- I couldn'tVote B
- I could but only in very unlikely circumstancesVote C
Most Helpful Girl
i could if he could still hold down a job and do things for himself, not because im greedy or anything but because im willing to overlook a disability to gain a good partner. no one man or woman wants to gain an extra... excuse the wording no offense meant... 'child' to look after and be the sole worker in the home because it makes life so much more stressful and hard. i know thats not pc to say but its how quite a lot of people feel. it wouldn't be the disability putting me off you, just not being able to walk is fine you are still a whole person who can do things and id date you but if it was much worse (say full body paralysis or ALS where you needed a caregiver instead of a wife) i couldnt date you3