I'm currently seeing this guy (we're not officially in a relationship but we haven't had sex either, just dating) gets very annoyed when other guys check me out. I don't even know what the issue is because it's not like other guys approach me neither do I flirt back or anything but even if a guy across the room is looking at me he gets very pissed off. Sometimes I'm scared he'll go up to the guy and punch him in his face. And on top of that we're not exclusive as neither of us have questioned our status yet of officially being girlfriend and boyfriend. I want to bring it up because I really do like him but if his jealousy is going to get out of control after we're official then I'm not sure if I even want to take this further. I haven't asked him much about his previous relationships but he seems like the type of guy that is protective of his girlfriend. So what do you guys think?
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Well... I think it's okay to be protective of your girlfriend, as in won't let her go outside at night alone, or even in the day, take care of her, be sure she eats healthy or at least eats enaugh... things like that. If a guy you're not even in a relationship with yet has the tendancy to get overly jelous of guys who look at you then there are only two thing that might make him that way:
1. Eighter you are very very very pretty and he's afraid that someone might come and steal you (which is nice)
2. Eighter he has commitment issues and past relationship problems about cheating that he's not over.
If number 1, then you have to tell him how you feel about him, reasure him that you arn't going anywhere, make you're relationship official and make him stop his jealousy.
If nr. 2, then you need to ask him, talk about how you feel about his posessivness and decide wether you want to be with him or not.
I hope this will help a bit. Have a nice day. :)0