Sorry, I had to make the title a little more dramatic than it actually is. If you follow any of my other q's then by now you know I have a huge (revealed) crush on my good friend/coworker. (Its just a temp part-time job for me so no coworker relationship no-no's apply. I will be leaving in Jan.)
We are great friends & very close friends at work. Comfortable talking about anything & everything with each other. Im 22 & he's newly 27 so our minor age difference helps us to get along better.
We have never done anything outside of light touching & a lot of flirtatious convos. The farthest I've gone was kissing him on the neck in the back room. We also have never hung out outside of work. I ask him every now & then if he wants to hang out on my weekends off. The answer is always a sarcastic sure or he has plans elsewhere, but after asking him today he replied with; "I got family in town this week so however early they leave tomorrow ill come through". That is the first time he's ever answered with something remotely close to a serious yes. Im excited that it will actually happen but now that he said yes I don't know what we're gonna do. I dont want to have sex or hookup or anything. If kissing happens thats fine but as far as activities/topics Im lost lol.
My questions are...
1. Do you think he's serious about showing up? If so, does it seem like it will be a quick thing or an actual hang out?
2. What should we do/talk about?
I attached a poll too. Thanks!
- Stay in with a movie & talk25% (1)40% (2)33% (3)Vote
- Hook up0% (0)40% (2)22% (2)Vote
- Go out to the mall, movies, dinner, downtown, or park, etc.75% (3)20% (1)45% (4)Vote
- Other (leave ideas)0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
I see him tomorrow at work but no hard feelings. I will not be asking him again to come over. No sense in getting my feeling hurt again. Thanks for the advice, guys!
Most Helpful Girl
Do not-I repeat-DO NOT hook up with him right away. He's given you a ton of excuses before actually hanging out with you. So you have to spend time with him outside of work to make sure he likes you for all the right reasons.3