Girls, what are the rules you go by when it comes to texting a guy?

Not like you're playing games just certain things you do or don't do when it comes to texting him?

  • I never text back right away
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  • I usually always let him text me first
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  • No sexual talk
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  • no rules I just do whatever i feel like at the moment
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And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Girl

  • It depends if the guy is someone I just started dating or my partner. If I just met someone and am a bit unsure about how he feels about me I only initiate texts every other time since I don't want to seem too on if he's not really interested. I also usually answer in the same speed that he answers my texts. I wouldn't call this playing games though, it's just a way to keep my distance and don't move too quickly. But when I'm sure he feels the same way about me or if he's my boyfriend I contact him as much as I want :)

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    • Me too & if I can tell he's not interested or before I text him I ask myself do I really have anything to talk about? And if not I don't text or text back lol. not playing games just avoiding dry awkward moments.

    • Yeah exactly :) You shouldn't force conversation

What Guys Said 3

  • from my personal experience, its usually that they will always follow rule b, then go by rule d.

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  • NO RULES, JUST LOVE

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  • Let me give ladies some advice, if you play games 9/10 guys will move on the the girls who don't play games. Just be natural don't over think things.

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What Girls Said 8

  • The opposite of A & C
    Normally B
    And most of my texts are goofy so no rules haha

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  • I always feel like I'm bothering someone if I text them first, and I get sort of antsy when I don't get a response, so I usually let them text me first.

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  • If I know the guy I text him first, if not he should text me first. Honestly I don't like getting texts at home cause I have a dog that's sensitive to noise and barks lot. This includes the doorbell on tv or at home and my texts.

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  • No rules! Go with tha flo..
    till you can't take it no mo...

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  • No sexual talk, and keep the texts short rather than 2000 words long lol.

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    • Is 1,999 words still cool? Cause I'll keep it under 2000, but I've definitely sent out a few 1999 ones before...

    • Ohh I've gotten great at this lol

    • its just that its a text not reading a short story, otherwise that might as well be a phone call lol :)

  • No rules. But I don't like sexual talks.

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  • I don't have any rules. I just do what I want. Sometimes I don't feel like texting back as soon as possible, sometimes I text him first, sometimes we can talk about sexual stuff. It just depends on who I'm talking to and how I feel. If your a guy I haven't known for a while then I'm not gonna talk about sexual stuff with you. It just all depends.

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  • Yeah really no rules I just go with the flow but the guys I talk yo we dint talk sexual

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