So for my entire life every single guy as looked at me as a perfect girl. When I go somewhere, every man stares at me (young or old). Everyone says that I am not only beautiful but that I have posture and I act like a true lady/decent girl I always have a smile on my face and I very outgoing, I just know how to behave myself and I never do silly/provocative things that girls my age do in parties (like dancing crazy around guys, kissing them, flirting all the time, talk loud, be drunk well you know). I've been waiting my whole life to be asked out, to be invited somewhere. Many guys say to me "You are such a special girl, you should never let anyone change who you are." or "There is no girl in the world like you" but NOBODY actually asks me out or tries to know me/have a relationship with me. I am just so tired of that. Every guy that is interested in me never makes a move and ends up having a girlfriend that is not me, but continues to seem interested in me.
I am just so tired of always being the other girl, the girl they look at, the girl they dream about. I am never the girlfriend. I am never their date. I am alone and nobody seems to know that.
What should I do? :(
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I can somewhat relate to your situation. All my life I've been jealous of my friends getting all the guys. They are loud, drink, party hard, smoke, go clubbing etc. Basically they're the bad girls and had plenty of guys. Back in the days they use to call me ''church cat'', ''angel'', ''princess'' because apparently I'm too good. I always felt like I didn't fit in. Today they all have kids, boyfriend/s left, they're stay at home moms and I get dirty looks. I'd rather be a ''good girl'' then turn out like them. Be patient. When least expected, the right guy will ask you out.0