I am single and i am tired of it, I am wondering where to meet women because i go to spots like nightclubs or bars and I long to meet a girl that I can call my girlfriend. At the end of the night I end up walking back home alone feeling more lonely than I was prior. Also I always see a couple on a daily basis and it seems to me that I get it rubbed in my face constantly that I am alone and that my life sucks. Anyone please help I feel so alone and hopeless
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Nightclubs and bars aren't great places to look for a girlfriend. Of course people are out having a good time socializing so there's always a chance, but often it's one night stands etc. and the guys who pick up girls in these circumstances will usually have the necessary experience lol. The big problem is that there are a lot of girls who go to bars and nightclubs to drink for free off strangers and get their ego massaged... while their boyfriends are at home in bed oblivious.
Taking up a hobby is a good way to do it, it's got to be something you're interested in though so it's not just about finding a girlfriend; if that's all you're focused on girls are going to see right through you. With a hobby or activity you have common ground and conversation is easier.0