I fell for this guy when I was about 18. He broke my heart and i spent two years being depressed over him. Two years of feeling insecure, and worthless and seeking attention from guys to momentarily pass the loneliness.
It helped me grow as a person but I was in a dark place and it was because of him. I NEVER want that to happen again.
How do I prevent it from happening again?
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I know exactly how you feel although in a much less extreme sense. I learned a lot from my broken heart.
When i find someone really nice ill make sure i dont develop to much feelings early on. Simply avoid romantic fantasies and thoughts. I will do this until i know for sure we both have mutual true love and after this i let my feelings go wild.
The day we separate ways i always find comfort in how things are now. If deep down you know it is better that way dont keep dwelling in your fantasies and memories of how they used to be. While it is fine to think about them if they pop in your mind you should confirm to your mind that yes they where awsome back then but its no longer the case. Eventually your mind will play along.1
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