Ok so I was chatting online with this guy because we have the same personalityand we like the same bands and stuff and he is shy and antisocial like me. After a month of chatting we went to cinema with friends and because we're both really shy we didn't talk, almost at all. But that isn't reallythe important part. I have never been asked out so I'm not sure how that thing goes and we were always chatting pretty friendly and he asked me out on a date and I didn't know it was actually a date until my friends told me. The funny thing is we were watching Penguins of Madagascar in cinema because he is really weird and 20 and still watching cartoons xd. At the date he was extremly nice and FRIENDLY which I was feeling great about because I don't find him physically attractive. We didn't kiss or anything, he didn't even touch me, except for when we hugged when we saw each other and a longer hug when I was leaving. When he came back home he wrote to me on Facebook: I hope it wasn't awkward
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Hi friend! He just sounds insecure! .. he really wants to leave a good impression and the reason he did not really talk that much, was because he was afraid of saying something stupid! It was awkward for him, because he knew, he should have had more contact with you, but he did not dare to! I feel honestly sorry for the guy. With that being said, I think we can state that he really likes you... before you break his heart, tell him, you want to be friends only. Otherwise he will hope for something that is not gonna happen anyway!
And in the end, never say never! :). I can see with the same interests etcetera that you 2 could become great friends! Take it from there and see what happens. But please calm him down and let him know it was not awkard at all! :)1