Ok so we have been seeing each other a while but mainly in his bedroom, so when i said if he really wanted to get to know me he's going to have to meet me outside of his bed, he agreed, but failed to confirm plans. He said "Don't hold me to it because i don't like commitments and sometimes bail" The hell i wasn't asking for a commitment just time to get to know each other which is what HE said he wanted when we first met. but i was sensing him losing interest so i was pulling back too... I am only giving what he puts out for me to take. I am not out to get used again. So i told him "Lol then I get to bail too. You better have a good excuse. To be honest when I
read that I hear. "you aren't important enough to me that I will keep my plans
with you, because something better could come up" so this I what I am going to
do. If someone makes definite plans with me on wensday with a time a place which
probably will happen then I will do that. Like I said it's whoever wins the
race. Don't like it sorry but I will not be treated like that I have standards.
I'm only giving as much as you do. Is that fair? " he said it wasn't fair and i am wondering if he is even worth my time at this point? Why would he do this? Guys please help me, your species perplexes me lol.
- He is using you, doesn't respect you or uninterestedVote A
- He is scared of commitmentVote B
- RUN AWAY!!!Vote C
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I'd say you deserve better and I think that is fair.1