Well, I can't believe I'm asking this question, but I need some advice/encouragement. There's a girl in one of my classes that is going to end on Thursday (only a day and a half away!) I want to ask her out, and that will be my last chance. What's a good way to go about it? I usually fail to make a move and justify it by telling myself why it wouldn't work out with the girl. I shall not let that happen again. Ideas on what to say, suggest what we should do as a date?
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Better to do it and face rejection than wonder "what if?" Regrets are the worst! I'm going to answer this in general terms, because I don't know the specifics (if you've talked, if she knows who you are, if you've just stared at her from a distance, if she seems sort of interested, etc). I hope that you sort of know her and have talked to her before. This increases your chances, rather than her being like, "Um, no... who are you?" There is also a difference of asking her out, and asking for her number (I'm assuming you don't have it).
You can do this two ways. You could either ask for her number, get to know her a bit better, and then ask her out. Or, you could suggest a date, hope she says yes, and then get her number so you can make the date happen. Personally, I would prefer the first because a date is a big thing, but giving my number out is a little simpler. It give me more time to think about my response and also if I actually want to go with this guy.
As a girl, the thing I would appreciate the most is honesty. So just tell her exactly what you did here! That this is probably the last time you'll ever see her and you don't want to miss this opportunity and that you'd like to spend more time with her.
If all goes well and the date happens, I suggest getting some food somewhere like a mall or a mainstreet type of thing, doesn't necessarily have to be expensive. Just a nice place where there's plenty to look at and walk around and also food.
You can do this! Just take a deep breath. I wish you luck. Please keep me updated! I hope it goes well :)1