So I've been seeing this woman for two months and she dropped the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" line on me. She says he reasons are that she's busy, busy with building and maintaining friendships because she doesn't have many, and busy with pursing her life goals.
She claims she really like me. She said stuff "it's so unfair I meet an amazing guy like you when I'm not ready", but it comes off condescending because if she really thinks I'm so amazing then wouldn't she do whatever it takes to make herself ready?
A female friend of mine says I should wait a least a little while if I really like her, and I do really like her, but at the same time I feel like she's basically saying that she likes me, but not that much, or that she likes me enough to keep me around until she decides she's done looking for someone better. Is it my ego saying that, or is that a fair interpretation?
I'm not opposed to female friends, I have several close ones but obviously a friendship won't work as long as I have romantic feelings for her. Is it unreasonable for me to tell her I don't want to hang out just the two of us for a while?
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"I'm not ready for a relationship" is a less harsh way of saying "I want to keep my options open."0