I didn't know when I first started pursuing her that her ex would be heavily involved. I knew she had a kid who is 1 now but people told me the ex wasn't in the picture. We went on a date and a couple before I officially asked her to be mine. She mentioned the kid on the third date. A month passed by since we were officially dating and she asked me to wait at her house because a package was coming in and had to be at work earlier than usual. Her ex was at the house and was taking the kid. I didn't know him at that time so I called her to make sure. She told me that her ex comes to her house to pick up the kid while she works or comes at night to stay with the kid. At that point we got in an argument and I didn't want to seem like that over protective jealous type so I let it go. We've been going out for three months now and we just bumped into her ex at dinner. They hugged and he kept saying "wow you look great." "Tell your parents I said hi." "I miss your moms cooking" With me going back to school and working I feel like they see each other more. I trust her but I dont trust him. She told me it was hard for her to keep a man longer than two months because of her ex. I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or not. Or what I should say. I can't just kick him out.
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That's good that he is involved with his kid. I don't think she would cheat on you with him. However, she has a lot of baggage. The best option would be to let her go unless you want to put up with all of that. Talk to her about it, tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable that he is sleeping at the house. Communication is key.1