I am 18 and never had any official boyfriends ever and it gets complicated. I want to find someone that feels the same way that I do, nothing more and nothing less. They say that "love" just comes, why doesn't it happen to me? University has started and there has been no one that I feel something for and I try I hang out with as many friends as I can and go out abd nothing. Now that Christmas is close, it feels more lonely. And I am a nice person, I know I diserve it, I just want to have someone and make him happy. Someone to hug and kiss and take care of. I feel so lonely that sometimes I remember a crush I had last year when I was a senior in highschool and he was feeling the same way by the way he was acting, but due to the exams for university (in my country) that are extreamely hard no one looks for a relationship, so nothing happened. And now I don't see him anymore and thinking about him makes me feel pathetic and atupid because he could have a girlfriend or liking someone and I don't see him, I saw him a couple of times. I need someone that makes me happy, someone. What should I do? What should I think about? I am afraid I will end up alone... I feel lonely and scared.
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You're 18, so time is on your side. You have to start worrying when you get to your mid-20's like I am and you're still in the same position.
There's nothing anyone can say to you to alter the way you feel, you feel the way you feel, but I definitely think it will happen for you.
I think it would be better to focus on your studies and making friends in the mean time because you don't want to do what I did and that is fritter away your education progression because you're too busy chasing love like I did. Because you'll end being in your mid-20's like I am studying for qualifications I should have gained three or four years ago.
Still you live and learn I suppose.1