Some people have been telling me that when I get a boyfriend in the future, he won't like the fact that 3 of my friends are guys.
My best friends are 5 girls and 1 guy. With my one guy best friend: before we really knew each other, I had originally asked him out, so we went on a date, but then we mutually decided that we'd be better off as friends than girlfriend and boyfriend. We've never held hands, hugged, kissed or made any remotely sexual or romantic physical contact. With my other 2 guy friends, they're guys who both have lots of girl friends, so I'm just another female friend to them and it's always been strictly platonic. I'm not as close to him as I am to my female best friends, but we are pretty close.
Opinions and advice, please.
- 3 guy friends would bother me0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- 1 guy best friend would bother me14% (1)18% (2)17% (3)Vote
- It wouldn't bother me57% (4)64% (7)61% (11)Vote
- Other29% (2)18% (2)22% (4)Vote
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Had to vote "other" because each guy is way different on this and it really depends on your lifestyle with them. If you're at their places "hanging out" at late hours on the weekends and whatnot it'll tick off a boyfriend big time and he'll just think you're cheating. But if you just met them at work and don't really hang out with them much outside of work a guy shouldn't care. I have friends who are girls but I never see them outside of work really but we randomly text. A girl going nuts over that would be ridiculous for me but I can see it happening.
If you don't hang out with them a lot and only see them at school or whatever if the guy is bothered by it I'd just consider him controlling. If you hang out with them a lot a boyfriend will most likely consider it suspicious.1