I'm attractive and pretty but I dress so average and down almost. I dress very non intimidating and never wear make up. I'm very friendly nice down to earth. Never stuck up because I grew up in a small town and never cared to even think I was pretty. I'm petite and I'm assuming men find me intimidating simply cuz I'm pretty. If I'm so non approachable then why are men always rude to me and even making fun of me? I don't get that.
Also men who've been very abusive to me have told me I'm too beautiful as if it's a bad thing. As if they have the right to mistreat me because I'm too pretty. Aren't there women who are too pretty who men like? Do men really just hate pretty women this much. I don't get it. Most men treat me like a weirdo because I'm pretty and even are rude to me
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Abusive men hate women. Good men do not have women.
That being said, being pretty can have its downside, one of which is that some men are intimidated, thinking that you will reject them because most pretty women have a wider array of dating options.
Now I would say that my wife was beautiful, but I'm biased in that regard. Men were intimidated by her, but they didn't really treat her weird. By my friend's accounts, my sister was very pretty in her youth. Again, men were intimidated by her, but they didn't really treat her weird or abusive. It does make me wonder why men seemed to have treated them differently than they have treated you. Do you have any ideas on that, asker?1