Would you be more inclined to date a guy that's in a band by default without knowing much about him simply because he is a musician? Or would you date a guy not in a band that you know more about?
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I personally think it's important to know more about the guy that I'm dating. I guess it depends on what you really want out of the relationship. I've dated guys that played in bands before, and they are actually pretty selfish... a girl that dates a guy in a band will probably get to know him very well actually, because he won't shut up about himself. If I wanted to date someone that had common interests, likes, etc., then we'd have more to talk about and more to do together. It's hard to be committed to someone that you know nothing about except that he plays in a band and wears tight jeans.0