Okay, so I replied to a personal ad. He's 22, lives in the next town over. He's totally cool, we meet and go to the park. And totally hit it off, so he takes me back to his place and we watch a movie. He lays (JUST) a kiss on me, and tells me I'm fun to kiss. Today, he picks me up and we visit another park. We are walking back to the car and I sort of stopped him and stood in front of him, he looked around at me. And told me that he actually really likes me and thinks I'm really pretty, doesn't want to rush into a relationship right now. And needs to figure himself out first. And then says, even though he does really want to kiss me (it's obvious). Is he gay? Does he just not want to make any mistakes with someone he sees himself with for a long time? I'm completely lost here, we are supposed to hang out again tomorrow. Should I say something, or try again. I don't know, because it's kind of depressing me and. Emotionally, I really wasn't expecting him to say that. Please HELP.
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Like everyone else said, I doubt the guy is gay. I think he just is just simply trying to take his time with you because he likes and respects you. Also you two just meet and a comfort zone may have not been established yet. I know when I meet a woman that I am really into I don't push up on her so much. This sounds like a good guy. I suggest you don't panic because he is not kissing all over you in just a couple of dates. The fact that he is interested in seeing you without all the physical contact is evidence that he is genuinely interested.0