I've asked this a few times but all I get is abuse, not advise. I realize i was an idiot and have learnt my lesson. Basically. ... met a guy online, spoke daily via phone/text for three months. I was insecure so refused dates or changed the subject when he asked. I also said i'd meet other guys and f##k them because i wanted to see if he cared. I upset him countless times and he gave me numerous chances. The final time he said he still likes me but doesn't want more hurtful comments so he's happy to stay mates. We didn't speak for a week. He ignored me. Then agreed to meet as friends when he's free. It's three weeks later and he barely replies anymore. I sent 'will you meet me in town and let me buy you lunch? I still have your birthday gift from months ago and really want you to have it' he replied 'honestly you don't have to buy me lunch Rachel'... we've text a few times since but i don't understand his reply?
1. Is he agreeing to meet but i don't have to buy his lunch or is he declining?
2. If we do meet is there a possibility of him forgiving me and wanting to date me again because i've committed to finally meeting?
3. Is he acting this way to protect himself from more hurt because he says he still likes me?
4. Any tips to help me convince him i've learnt my lesson and put my guard down now?
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I think if I were him and you said something like that to me I would immediately think that I wouldn't want any more to do with you.
Did you actually say in those words? What does that have to do with your own insecurity? What does refusing his dates have to do with your own insecurities?1
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