We've been together for almost 3 months now. We were both new to the city we live in, met up and it stuck. We see each other usually about twice a week (we have strange schedules) and text in between. If I text him he messages back with in 5-10 mins usually. Not long conversations but a "Hey, how's it going?" or whatever. We go out on dates but mostly it's dinner and hanging out at one of our apts. He's met my friends at my birthday party which he asked me if he could come too (I was totally going to invite him anyway)., I've met his roommate in passing but none of the people he works with.
The other day he asked me if I was going to have sex with anyone when I went home for Christmas, I said no and asked him the same question to which he replied no as well. This lead into a brief relationship conversation where he said that we weren't official we both agreed that we like the other and we like being together. I told him that my dealbreaker was -official or not- if he slept with other people it's over -- and he said, Ok, I understand.
He didn't add anything to the conversation or his dealbreakers or anything.
He keeps making plans for after Christmas - like we'll go to this restaurant or we'll do this thing.
So is this progressing into something real (even though he said "Not official") or is it just FWB?
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Break it up, because even if you two like each doesn't mean you should resolve to being friends with benefits, yeah, you two like each other but did you two tell each other that you love each other? and I mean genuinely love each other, because if not you are only degrading yourself. don't, save yourself for someone who you will truly love. someone who will tell you that he loves you and will wait for you, relationship that starts early with sex tends to end early too. and believe me, it will be you who will regret it in the end. as him if he loves you and not like you and if he could wait for things such as sex, geez its too early for you, its only been three months. don't let yourself sink so low, treasure yourself more. remember there are people who treasures you more than you do yourself.0