Just wondering if any of you have ever met someone online and traveled quite a distance to meet that person and how it went?
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I haven't had to travel, but I've met girls online before, even ones from far away. While I don't think it's necessarily "bad" to do things this way, you have more things working against you than for you. You have to think of the reason why guys are meeting girls online from far away in the first place. Is it because you can't meet girls locally, or you are having difficulty? If so, what makes us think that girls online from farther away will be any different? It may seem better, because they appear to be interested, but online it's difficult to gauge how a person really is. We are able to adjust our answers when we chat/talk online. We can put up only our best pictures. We can say anything.
You also have to think that when you travel to meet this person, you're putting a lot of faith in them being a certain way. It takes a while to get to know someone enough to know if they're right for you (if you're not, you are deluding yourself). That's a lot of effort into figuring this info out.
The main reason guys try this approach is because they don't want to put in the little bit of extra effort becoming better at meeting girls locally. There are ways to enhance your success, from learning how to approach and talk to women, to learning about different places they hang out. My opinion is you'd be better served putting your energy into doing this, because chances are if you keep doing what you've been doing anyway, long distance or not, you'll keep getting the same results. I can help you learn more about becoming a guy who can attract more women locally if you like. I promise you're better off doing this than is worth the risk of meeting people online who don't live nearby.2