So the story is this. Met this bird 3 weeks ago and had a great night out we was on each other for most of the night! Then after as we were waiting a for a cab she she tells me she don't know. I was like what you mean and she just said she doesn't know. So get home well more so stumbled in cause I was hammered lol! She calls me saying that she thinks she's scared but wants to see me again. Since then though it hasn't been right! Like she seems more reserved from me in terms of how she texts me. Plus we used to talk quite a bit on the phone and every time I ask if she's free to talk she says yeah but has just gotta get her little one down first which is fair enough and then she'll will text me to let me know to call her. Before we met she always done that now she never does. We arranged to meet up twice last week! One was canceled cause her kid was ill. The second one she arranged and canceled cause her mate was upset about getting dumped which I find a fucked up excuse tbh. Plus I was away last week and missed a text from her cause I was busy so didn't text her through the day and she sends me guess were not talking now. Told her why I couldn't get bk to her but now when I send her messages a few of them she won't even reply to. She's saying she wants to see me again but I can't work out if she's being like this cause she's scared or she's lost interest. What do you think?
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I think she lost interest, people are scared to date because in her case she may feel your trying to hit it and quit it. Yet, I dont think this is the case, most women scared still play with fire, they still make an effort. My brother, after she cancelled once , did she reschedule, does she ever reschedule? The second time she rescheduled I would have just left her alone, if a woman continues the cat and mouse game then it is time to leave, never give a woman who continues to cancel or miss your text, or not answer your call, another chance move on because she has. That girl, you speak of is speaking womaneses, and she I saying, " you a nice guy but you freaked me out and I'm not interested." Simply she don't want to be the bad guy, so make it easy for yourself and grab another bird.0