Dating guys that are substantially older than you?

Girls: What is your opinion on dating a guy that is substantially older than you? Let's say 15 or 20 years older than you?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm 19 and my guy is 30, so the math says 11 Y diff.
    At this age it's substantial.
    But when I'm 40 he's only 51.
    I was always attracted to older guys.
    No babysitting for me.
    :)

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What Girls Said 3

  • wouldn't happen. I like 'em nice and young!

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  • I have dated two guys who were 12-15 years older. I appreciate that they usually are done with the party scene, and hopefully wanting to settle down. Though the two I dated had obvious (in hindsight) commitment issues...

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  • I never have, but I've always wanted to. The idea of being the plaything of an experienced and possibly wealthy man is very appealing to me.

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What Guys Said 2

  • I have trouble finding girls who aren't substantially younger than me... so i'm sure it's very common, although at my age it's not a good thing.

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  • I know several girls who've done it. They're glad they did.

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    • Do you know why it was a positive experience for them?

    • They were compatible with the guy. That really is all there was to it - they saw him for who he was, not his age.

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