should just give up on dating?, I know people are like never give up on hope but never actually meeting someone and just starting over and over again is a pain, how was your experiences or etc
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I kind of have. Its a huge expense, it takes a ton of time, you always have to drive the conversation, initiate all the dates, and generally do all the work to make a relationship work. Although girls often have to wait for a man (they actually don't they just think they do), they get to bascially sit on their ass and let their favorite men come to them at which point they can pick and choose.
Also after such a big investment there a big chance that it just doesn't work out, she finds a more attractive man, she's waiting for marriage, she just wanted to use you for free dinners, and she's a good girl and doesn't want any kind of romantic relations after months. So all that effort is wasted most of the time, and most likely you'll have to settle for a girl that you're not attracted to at all (some 2/3 out of 10 with an average personality) because no other girl will have you.
Now that I stopped trying really life is much better instead of dealing with the constant pain of rejection. I have time to invest in school, hobbies, and my monkey does drugs. Drugs are vastly superior than relationships because they are reliable, cheaper, fun, and won't dump you without a second thought.0