We can be talking about any stupid thing out here and he respond within 2 minutes yet when I ask him something real it takes 20 to 30 minutes to hear from him.
I asked him if he was feeling better after a cold. 2 minutes to reply.
I asked him if he really meant when he says affectionate stuff to me when we're together. 1 hour to reply.
Why do men do this?
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Girls do the same thing. I know you're getting a number of sharp answers back, but I understand where you are coming from. You feel if he is really interested, he would get back to you sooner. Don't take it personal, but as a guy it takes some time to put some thoughts and feelings together. I would rather text easy stuff than really personal communications.
Keep in mind, your question of "how's it going?" requires way less brain power and consideration than, "when do you consider moving in together?". Not saying you are writing the latter, but you get my point.2