i mean as women fought for equality, i feel paying for your own expense makes sense.
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It's situational for me. If he asked me out and expected to me to pay my half then absolutely not.
Now on the other hand if it was just a mutual meet up to hang out no intentions of a date then totally.
OR if it was explicitly expressed (like it was with my boyfriend when we first started dating) that the guy doesn't expect to pay on the very first date since he's just using that time together to get a feel for the other person and isn't committed to them. I find that totally acceptable. Because not only were you honest with me but you had the decency to express WHY you felt it not necessary to pay on the first date.1