I was thinking about asking this girl out but decided not to since I couldn't see any signs of attraction. However another one of our coworkers said that he talked to her (without me knowing) and she told him she'd totally go one with me. See she could've said no right there. After hearing this I asked her out and she said yes without hesitation and made sure we had each other's numbers. She even self admittedly separated herself from her group to come to me.
I asked her once and she was working that weekend but could probably the next. I tried to set something up and she hasn't answered back. Someone told me it's probably because it's the holdiDays and she is with her family that she hasn't seen in a while.
If she didn't want to go why didn't she just say no in the first place? Good honest advice please
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Sadly some people love to play games, guy and girls included. A lot of times I feel like someone accepts an offer because it makes them feel good that someone wants to go on a date w/them. I have had that happen, I've asked guys out only to have then bail on me. I find it extremely disrespectful, if they're not interested fine I won't bother them. If they show interest I will prob ask them out if they don't beat me to it. I would keep my options open, plan fun things w/your friends and don't hold your breath on her agreeing to a date. Wait it out and don't ask her anymore, if she's interested she will make an effort to plan a date.0