There's this guy I like. At first I didn't, because he's one of those guys who's over confident and tries to act like hot shit around his friends, but the more you get to know him, you realize there's more layers to him and he's not a bad kid and really sweet.
He's always messing with me and joking around. But recently, my friend sort of spilled to him that someones got a crush on him. She didn't say who, but he most likely figured it out it was me since I'm always with my friend. Since then he's extra flirty like throwing things, pushing me around, teasing me with things I say, etc.
And I've caught him many times staring at me for such a long time when I'm not looking. It's one of those stares you would see a shy kid give to a girl he likes, like so innocent and honest.
I'm just confused because when my friend mentioned about someone liking him and he gave up asking who, he told her "I guess it doesn't matter if I know, because I'm sort of talking to someone else"
So now I'm confused because is he flirty more with me because 1.) he's got a thing for me or 2.) He's being his overconfident self and liking the attention, so he's enjoying the flirtation between us.
If it's 2, someone tell me now. lol I don't want to be played with or lead on if this is just a fun thing for the guy to do.
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You answered your own question lol! He said, "I guess it doesn't matter if I know, because I'm sort of talking to someone else". He's talking to someone else and the only reason he's looking at you is because he knows he has developed power over you since your friend spilled the beans. He's now playing power games and tries to mess with you, string you along when you're hot for him, and then needle you when you're trying to ignore him... then that's not healthy is it? Soooo I guess it kinda spills into 20