Lately I have been dealing with a lot of emotionally unstable girls. I seem to have trouble just having a normal conversation with her without her flipping out or starting to suspect something for no reason.
Like I am going out to get a bread around 9 pm and she flips out saying that I am going out with someone. Or I am going out with my colleagues for a bike run and she says I am dating someone. Or another case, I plan 2 dates on mondays and she asks me suspiciously why only on mondays? Well because I said on weekends but you said your were busy on weekends.
With another girl I have to say around 3-4 sentences for her to say one sentence. So I get the message that she is not interested and tone down my interraction. Next she freaks out why am I not talking with her enough.
I can go on like this forever. These past 2-3 years have been with girls mostly like this. I am getting really tired of these problems.
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If it was happening with only one girl, I would directly think she had issues.
But from your definition, it is repetitive. It happens all the time no matter who she is. So there should be some problems related with you? Don't you think.
Relationships are fragile. You need to feed it with your trustworthy behaviors. Either you or your gf a have problems receiving and giving trust.
We as girls trust not easily, but if we see you are trying, then we believe in you.
Maybe you are trying to keep cool, but it doesn't work like that.1