She says there's no chemistry, yet she still makes and keeps to plans we have made. She still wants to see me.
Something happened between her and a guy who she made plans with to move in together, and she told me she's still trying to get over him.
Could this have anything to do with it?
Ladies please explain... :)
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If she has Openly Admitted there's 'No chemistry,' she is merely feeling Comfortable with you, knowing you are Her Enabler to be around for her, to take her back whenever the chips are down And------She doesn't want to lose me and that she misses me.
You are her life support life line whenever she doesn't have anyone else, sweetie. She has no big attraction except to make you feel like She is this magnet that attaches herself to your caboose each and every time she is feeling lost and alone... she uses you for her sitting duck.
It's a full circle pattern that could lead down a beaten path of Problems in the future with a girl like this. With you always making it easy to let her keep coming back for more, she never has Anything in store for you but whining and wriggling her way back into your good graces and the comforts of home... she is mistaking your kindness for weakness as well.
It's your call, your choice, but it will eventually end up a War of the Roses with this problem child damsel in distress... eventually, she could end up dumping you for Good and disappear into her murky waters for good.
Good luck. xx0