I've been blessed with an awesome boyfriend but we are long distance. We haven't had any problems and been together for a while, over a year, and the only thing I could say is we had a 'break' that lasted for a couple of months. We have talked about marriage and kids, and the whole shebang. We've always been honest and never kept things from each other.
ANYWAYS, I was on my bf's Facebook wall because I was going to post something on it (and to look at his pics dont judge me lol). I came across something interesting. Some girl tagged him in a picture saying "thanks for the Christmas card!" Now I'm a girl, the way this girl was saying this was like she WANTED the whole world to know and LOTS of emoticons were involved. here's one itty bitty concern: I have no freakin clue who this chick is and my bf has never mentioned anything about her. I know he has friends that are girls, I KNOW who they are, but never heard of her. I texted him who was this girl and he sorta got defensive like "she's just a friend" and "I would never date her" and "you're my girlfriend". THEN I found out SHE was the one who sent him a Christmas card FIRST.
My bf hasn't sent anything to me.
He tried to justify that he was gonna surprise me with a gift for Christmas which is believable but at the same time doesn't make up for the fact why he never brought up this girl or a Christmas card. Like a simple "hey my friend sent me a Christmas card" would be sufficent enough. But me finding out like this?
My spidey senses are tingling now. Am I just overreacting and getting jealous or could something be seriously odd here?
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Are you two 'facebook official'? In this relationship? Does your boyfriend know about all the guys around you?
There is a possibility that this girl is chasing him, perhaps even after he rejected her. However as @Gooseman there said, there is also a possibility that he is playing you both.0