I've known a guy for a few years now, we'd always flirt but never dated. Through that he's dated a few girls. He had the chance to date me but didn't want to. Yet he gets jealous when other guys and I talk... he also flirts with me and says stuff like "I need to date a girl like (insert description of me)"... then goes and chooses someone else. I've gotten sick of it but he still seems to play these dumb games even though he's dating someone new now.
He'll get annoyed if I don't stop by to speak to him, then do the same to me for a few days etc. He also says stuff like "this could've been you if you had been good to me" when talking about his new girl & him etc. It's constant games with him. Why is he doing this if he doesn't want me? Why not just let it be?
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How do you react when he does it? I mean, in front of him. A lot of people are strange, if people keep doing some things, they're feeling pleasure with this thing. He probably likes playing games because something is "feeding" this playing. I don't mean it's you, but it can be maybe the way you react, or he just wants attention, or he likes this situation because it makes him feel good or in control of the situation somehow.
We can't say for sure, but this is my guess.1