I am 25 years old. I am interested in a girl and have been for quite a while now. She is a few years older than me (she's 29) and recently moved to another town nearby for work opportunities. After quite a while communicating over the phone and though Facebook, I'm planning to go and visit her in two weeks for a short period of time. We have been friends for a few years but I am interested in taking things further. At this stage I am not sure if she is interested in me or not. But I am keeping hopeful.
The thing is... I have never had a girlfriend before and I have also never had sex or been intimate with a girl in any way, sad I know, especially at 25.
Should I tell her about this? Or should I keep it to myself until I know she is interested in me? Or not tell her at all? Do you think it might scare her off? I mean, being 25 and never had sex and having very little experience with women. Most women would find that bizarre, don't you think?
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I wouldn't say anything unless you're actually romantically involved with her. It would be awkward to tell a friend that you're a virgin because it's not really of interest to her if she's only a friend. But if you two are going to be more than friends then definitely bring it up.0