How do you gain the confidence to approach girls and how do you approach them?
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For me, initially it was the fear that I might lose her to another guy if I never confess. I was so scared that i would lose out to the other guys who hung around her more, who chat with her more, and who seemed on the verge of asking her out.
After a while, there isn't any fear, but just a tinge of excitement wondering what the other girl is going to be like, and a lot of looking forward to great conversations and having great fun together. (yes this is on blind/online dating).
I've never tried to approach strangers in public before though, I guess it's just too weird for me still, not knowing if they're available, or what they are like.0