As a guy, my plan has always been to start looking for a wife and start dating girls when I hit 25. Then I would get married at 28ish. Recently though, I've been thinking that I should start looking for a wife and dating girls when I hit 20. A friend told me that in order to find "the ONE", you have to try many times and get a lot of misses. He said eventually you will get a hit. He said 25 is too late to be looking for a wife if I want to be married by 28. What do you think is best?
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You can't plan any of it. You can start looking when you're 20 and not find someone you want to marry or who wants to marry you until you're 40, it's love, it can't be planned. There's no point in looking at getting married as a goal to be achieved by a certain age, you should look at marriage as something you and the person you love want to commit to as an expression of your loving relationship.0