What is the longest crush that you have had on someone you barely know and did you guys ever end up dating?
Why did you crush for so long?
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On someone I barely know? One year. I have known this guy for about five or six days, and I have had an on-and-off, not-super-serious crush on him for a year, now. We are not dating, nor do I expect to end up dating him anytime soon. He's dated other girls and I pursued other guys.
I crushed so long I think because he's pretty much my ideal boyfriend, and I also loved the way we met. We met in an acting class, and after that we just kept running into each other by pure coincidence. It was the most bizarre yet wonderful thing, because it was this weird chance happening, but it also happened to involve a really cute, nice guy. It made me wonder if maybe fate really does exist, y'know?
On someone I know? One year. I crushed so long because I thought maybe he would change his mind about me even though he rejected me after about four months of crushing on him. This also happened around the same time as the crush described above. Similar to the above crush, we aren't dating nor do I expect to soon. He turned me down saying that I'm really sweet and all, he just doesn't think of me as a romantic interest. He was also (at least at that point) fixated on this other girl he knew that already had a boyfriend at that point, and he thought that she would, like, leave her boyfriend (who I'm pretty sure she's still dating) for the guy I was crushing on.
Moral of the story? Crushes tend to start out by being really magical and wondrous, but they tend to end up being really stupid and frustrating.1
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