my boss and I have been flirtatious for quite some time, and recently made out after a work party. He stopped it and said we couldn't because it was a bad idea, but then started to kiss me again. the night is slightly fuzzy so I dont know exactly who went in for the kiss first but it was mutual and got intense. We parted ways before anything else happened and I got upset, text to apologize for it etc. He said not to be and when I said i was embarassed he said not to be and that I was being silly, but I felt so awkward the next day even though he was acting normal. I basically laid it out on the table and told him i liked him but was sorry for putting him in the position.
Some back story: we've been working together for about a year and have a great rapport and work well together. I did not know he would be my boss or that he had a gf at first, by the time I did I had already started to develop feelings. He has kids and a gf- i hate to be 'that' girl but it happened. now I don't know what to do or how to act. advice please.
I know its just fun for him and I obviously meam nothing to him but I have feelings and dont know how to untanlge myself now...
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"what do I do now?"
You back off is what you do now, you both should have known better. Just back off and dont pursue any further or else you will have DRAMA on your hands big time.4