I casually dated a guy a few months ago but I made the mistake of showing him too early that I was really into him, by "chasing him", initiating contact, sleeping with him too soon... As a result he got scared and said he wasn't sure he wanted to commit, and finally it ended.
I met up recently with him and he wants to see me again so I think I may have a second chance to attract him, but how can I do to make him chase me? to appear valuable and not "needy" as before?
thanks for your comments!
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Great, another power struggle..
look, you did what you wanted, you took the initiative. That is fuckin awesome. probably the reason why he is coming back. so why don't you just flow with it? be yourself... if you want to jump his bones in the lobby bathroom rather than go upstairs, then just drag him there and do it. He obviously came back because other girls refuse to be as forward as you were... not straight to the point... and that is what you seem to want to do. really?
He won't chase you. The moment you start acting contrary to what you are like, he's gonna be getting the receptionist's number and trying to get away from you. This has nothing to do with needy... needy is you wanting him to chase YOU.0