It seem that I don't get messages of girls on dating sites why? Am I just unattractive to theme?
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I used to use online dating a lot and would meet girls here and there. Honestly, you're not missing much. The quality of girls on dating sites is sub par. Mosta the profiles you see are girls who hide their weight or use outdated pics and when you meet them, they're fat. Many of them honestly have zero intention of meeting anyone and treat the site like another instagram and just want to see guys compliment them.
If they are actually looking to meet someone, the trouble is that they are looking for someone very specific. Not necessarily a "standards" thing but a very specific guy they have in mind. Throw in the fact hat many will outright say they get 30-50 messages even a day and your chances of a reply are slim. I have even seen first hand what these insanely high amount of messages do to a girl's ego when I met one one night who just sat there bragging about how many messages she was getting and the extremes guys were going to meet her. So in the end all these guys messaging these girls are stroking their egos and giving them an inflated sense of self worth.1