im not physically appealing to the eyes. Its not a case of low self esteem but the honest truth of my reality. Girls say looks dont matter, PUA's say looks dont matter, some guys say it too. Tell me than why is it that as on a daily bases i make eye contact get girls heads turning there heads all the way around when passing them on the streets. Why is it that i get looks of disgust when greeting customers at my job. Theyre facial expression says it all. I dont dress bad either i wear button up dress shirts and suit pants. I get judged because im not physically appealing. I can't do anything about it is the sad thing its been a burden. Just last week my friend brought a girl with us on our way to the casino. They werent dating i think he was trying to hook me up. Anyways the girl after 5 minutes of seeing was repulsed by me. I was nice to her offered to buy her a meal but she ignored and looked at me in disgust. At times like this i feel im not treated like a human being. On a scale from 1 to 10 i consider myself a 1. Im skinny and weigh only 55kg, my height is 5ft10. Throughout my life I've been single never known what love feels like or the joy that comes with it. but I've felt the pain from rejection after rejection. I've stopped approaching women and I've come to terms that i'll probably die a lonely man. Im 19 and i thank god for what he's giving me but pray he changes my life. My friends go out partying, clubbing and enjoy the company of hundreds of girls. I've been disregarded by crushes some of whom my friends had hooked up with. I've asked girls on dates some never picked up their phone again and some ignored me. I won't get much eye contact from guys or girls when i speak to them. I no longer fear death like i once did.
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What Chances Do You Stand When Your Super Ugly?
In my opinion that depends on your gender and what it is you want a chance at. Since you're a guy I'd guess you have a far lower than average chance at 'free' sex with young hot gals and an average chance at relationships/unsteady sex. The latter being based on your other attributes- career potential, wealth, status, personality, social skills, etc.
"Tell me than why is it that as on a daily bases i make eye contact get girls heads turning there heads all the way around when passing them on the streets."
If you're in America I find this common behavior for most gals because they don't want to be pestered/bothered with being hit on. Likely it's not your looks that matter but their time. I know gals who wear rings, put on headphones, or even hold up their dead cellphone to avoid being pestered.
"I was nice to her offered to buy her a meal but she ignored and looked at me in disgust. At times like this i feel im not treated like a human being. "
It's bit of an overreaction to me that you feel you're not being treated like a human being because a gal was uninterested in you. If anything you are being treated like a human being because she's displaying her lack of interest/attraction to you.0