How would you feel if your significant other wanted to have sleep over at a friends house? My best friend just called and wants to do a huge girls night. There are going to be about 20 of us hanging out watching movies. But she wants everyone to stay the night after. I told her I would come, but I wouldn't stay the night.
If my man told me a group of guys were getting together to watch movies and then all stay the night at John's house I would be bugged. For one thing it's a little weird and I would wonder if it was a cover story. And for another, why can't he just come home? I am a big believer in coming home to each other at night. It's one thing if he went to like Vegas or something and couldn't come home, but to just stay gone all night when he is 15 minutes away would bug me. I can't explain it. But I just think he should be coming home to me every night. I'm not ok with him staying out all night for any reason.
How would you feel if your husband/wife wanted to stay the night at a friend's house 20 min. away?
After the poll please explain your answer.
- I would be just fine with it.Vote A
- I wouldn't be ok with it, it would bother me.Vote B
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Hi, I see your point and I do agree. For me, it bugs me extremely when my fiance goes to a sleep over. Going out with the girls is all fine and well. But it's irksome that she find a need to stay the entire night when her fiance is right at home and willing to do anything she wants. Your feelings possibly develops from a self-conscious feeling that maybe, you cannot give him all that he need. That you feel depressed by the fact that he look to an entire night away from you as pleasant. But for whatever the deeper cause is. Know that you're not the only one that feels this way. My fiance use to do it EVERY single weekend unless she absolutely couldn't. I found it pretty annoying then, because I couldn't even make plans with her for the weekend unless her friends were all busy and wouldn't have her.1