After a breakup from al ong relationship, I ma not ready to jum in one. Met a nice guy and he wants me to commit. Is it strange to say no. Need some time for myself.. As in not ready and wanna go for an open relationship?
- 1. Yes strangeVote A
- 2. NormalVote B
- 3. Better take time and no relationshipVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I think you are getting confused with a casual relationship? Open relationships are committed just not monogamous. Needing some time to yourself and being in an open relationship are kinda opposite things too. Communicate what you are feeling with this guy anyway, If you need some time to yourself tell him, if he thinks you're worth it he will wait. If you just want casual or friends with benefits, tell him. Honestly I don't think anyone should go from one relationship straight into the next one. Take some time to reflect on what you have learned from the last relationship and how to improve yourself to being who you want to be and what you are really looking for in a guy. You don't have to be ready to commit just because some 'nice guy' is. Do what is best for you and don't be pressured by anybody.0