Me and this guy have been talking but I found out from him that he wasn't completely out of a relationship but that is was extremely complicated and not to worry about it. He seems to really care a lot about me (tells me often that he does) and is really sweet. However even with the pet names and time together he hasn't defined our relationship. Where should I go from here?
- stick with it and see how it plays outVote A
- drop him; doesn't look like he can decideVote B
- disengage myself a little and watch what I doVote C
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If he can't end a relationship before he starts a new one he will never end it. He is getting the best of both worlds, what incentive does he have to choose. If he wasn't single when you started seeing him, he was cheating on his original gf, if he still isn't single he is still cheating. Cheaters never change. What makes you think once he does quit the original (IF he does) he won't do the exact same thing to you. He obviously doesn't think you are worthy enough to devote all his relationship attention to so why should you. Actions speak louder than words and right now his actions are screaming at you. Kick him to the curb, you deserve better.1