So the other night I was out to dinner with our friends and it was close to closing time. The place was decently empty so our waiter started visiting our table a lot. My friends started teasing me instantly because he was focusing on me, talking directly to me only and teasing and cracking jokes toward me. He was cute and funny and my friends (which included a guy friend of mine) seemed to really think he was flirting so I decided to be bold and just leave my business card along with the tip at the table. It was late when we left and I know it's the holidays today so to avoid crushing my ego I've been telling myself he just might be tired or busy but I think the unfortunate truth is that he wasn't actually interested. I don't do stuff like that often so it's hard not to feel embarrassed but I'm still glad I did it. My question to the guys is, was there a wrong way I went about it? I'm in college and I just got these damn business cards so I'm all proud and annoying about them and I'm literally such a nerd I was like "HOW SEXY IS THIS LET ME JUST GIVE HIM MY CARD". Would you be weirded out by that?
Merry Christmas guys XD and please, if a girl leaves you her number at least text her to let her know you're not available or interested. It's so much better than nothing.
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I don't think you went about it the wrong way.
There are many possibilities why he hasn't responded. Maybe he didn't realize the business card was a come-on. Maybe he's shy on the phone. Maybe he's shy in general, except perhaps at work where he puts on a persona. Perhaps he just enjoys flirting. Perhaps your friends only saw what they wanted to see (they are your friends; so, I assume they want you to be happy). Perhaps he's busy, since it's Christmas.1