I am a petite girl 164cm and I am 47 kg. Ever since I got together with this guy we have been dining out and I have gained up to 3 kg of weight. I have noticed in photos that I am chubbier. Boyfriend constantly pinches my cheeks and calls me chubby. However I have been very active since the past month and exercising more. Now I am 48 kg. Everytime I go out with my boyfriend he would play with the fats on my arm and cheeks and teased my chubbiness. Now this might be a playful thing, but I felt like he was being an arsehole when he measured my waist yesterday and said, "You've been exercising? No you havent!"
I was wearing one of those really tight pants that squeezes any ounce of belly fat up and I guess he felt that part.
Should I feel offended? Or is this normal for a guy to do this?
I feel like everyone tells me I'm skinny and fine the way I am except my boyfriend!!
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Me and my boyfriend do that to each other all the time and neither of us is fat. It's never in mean nature, just for shits and giggles.
You shouldn't really listen to the people, who claim he's being an ass, because tone and attitude play a huge role in telling what your boyfriend actually meant, so without that we can't really give you proper advice. People today are so sensitive, they'll just assume ANY jokes about weight are meant to be malicious.
It's up to you to decide whether he's being horrible or just poking fun, because you're there experiencing it. If it's making you feel bad, then by all means speak to your boyfriend and tell him it's hurting your feelings.
Also, you sound VERY underweight even at 50kg, it's a bit concerning.1