There is this girl in the college I go to that many are attracted to, she gets thousands of likes on her Instagram pics, so she probably knows she can get anyone. So far she has curved many guys cause I never seen her with a guy. I'm a guy who takes care of himself, in my opinion the best dressed in the whole school, 6'1 in shape, and get some good looks every now and then. They say she's not full of her self, but what can I do to stand out to her and not seem like the average guy when approaching her? They say the most unique guy wins her, and I'm sure all these other guys have approach her in the same way, should I be less friendly and a little more of an asshole? Lastly, the majority of the guys that I've seen her talking to have been average looking guys, so I know looks aren't a HUGE part here, I feel like she's more about feelings and all that. Any opinions are welcomed.
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Well when it's attraction it is emotional not physical with women
U can be a 10 looking guy but if u need a manual on how to approach a woman and speak.. She won't find him interested yet alone be creeped out.
Approaching her is ur biggest step, it's what will determine to continue with u or run from u, nervous yet? U should be.. Because that's how important it is.. Screw it up and U'll never get another chance.
Now take a deep breath and realized what u said.. "Unique guys" that probably implies they had a good game when approaching her.. First thing most men think of is James bond or his type, wrong ! Most of us are not blessed to be like James bond.. However u can use one thing and it works great.. A smile, strong eye contact, calm voice
When I say smile.. Not a creepy one.. Or a weird fake one.. But a smooth friendly confident a"almost a smirk" smile. Strong eye contact is necessary, but don't stare.. Eye contact ! Confusing right? Well if ure staring into her eyes.. that's good but break eye contact time to time.. Eye contact when she talks or has ur attention.. If not break eye contact.. And the calm voice.. Speak up so she can hear.. Keep ur voice tone low and speak clearly.. Don't make her ask u to repeat.. I mentioned these 3 because u seem really insecure about what to do and how to approach her.. Next will be things to say :)2
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