I really think that the guy that I'm talking to and I are starting something, but it's going kind of slow. When talking to my friends about it, the opinion is either positive and encouraging or "If he was really interested, he'd do x, y, or z."
I guess I'm just wondering which side might be more valid. I know it depends on all of the details, but I dislike feeling discouraged by those in the less positive group just because we're taking things slow. If he really were more interested, would he be more actively pursuing me? Or might he just be as nervous or cautious as I am?
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If he was really interested in you and you showed that you're interested in him, he would be more actively pursuing you. Your friend's opinions are somewhat important but you need to find out on your own on how this guy is.0