I have been seeing an ex casually. We dated several times over the years and just reconnected after 4 years of no contact. He was a not good person when we were together. Mean, somewhat controlling, occasionally abusive, a liar, and a theif. He has however changed.
I don't think it's just an act that he has kept up for 4 months. He wants me to trust him, but it's hard considering our history. He understands and is willing to wait for me to. I feel bad that he really wants me to completely accept the person he is now, but a small part of me keeps waiting for him to screw me over. Any ideas on how to get past this?
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to be honest with you, if you really want this relationship with him.
it will take time for you to build those feelings of trust and that back up, there is no real tips or tricks to it... just take things as they are.
but on a personal level... you notice him start to go back to his old self in any way shape or form... leave him.0
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